So here is how it goes, you are on a date or just out at a club. You start talking to a woman or chick, all seems to be going well. She is giving off the vibe, that she is still a bit standoffish. But still interested.

But how do we move on from talking to something more? How do you stap the chat and start touching. How do you introduce imtimacy into it as soon as you can?

Keep reading to find out the secrets to seduction.

I think back to when i first started dating, and i made the mistake of leading the date with too much coversation. Now you will probably find that most of the dating books will tell you to keep the conversation going to keep up the interest. If you keep it going long enough  it will lead to physical attraction. You can leave this advice at the door, its a bunch of rubbish. If you want to connect with a woman physically (and who doesent... ;) you have to stop the flow of talk and start touching.

Now some people are just masters of language and can actually get intimate by using words, but from experience and many failed attempts I am not one of them. You need to show her excitement not with words but with your body!.

You want to make sure that she doesent get bored, and that is what small talk usually does. She is not there for the small talk, She is testing you to see if she can find excitement, adventure and fun with you. And believe me, she doesent want to talk about the weather.

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Make sure that you warm her up to physical contact. Here are a few things that amazingly work very well, reading them you think. Pfft thats not going to work, but surprizingly they do. You have to subconciously make her think positively when you touch her. A nice easy way to start doing this is too caress her back to make her feel good, Just reach over while you are chatting (best to do this in the middle of a conversation, not while there is just a silence ;) Rub her back in a circular motion two to three times and then let go.

Make sure that you ask about her, and what she is wearing. Not too much as to seem gay, but just enough to make an excuse for physical contact. Check out her jewelery and admire it, take her hand if she is wearing any rings and ask about them, Put out your hand palm up and ask to see her rings. she will put her hand and put it in yours, you can ask where she got them and which is her favourite. Make it subtle, Caress her fingers a couple of times while looking at her rings and asking about them, but make sure that you dont over do it, or it will seem that you have an alterior motive. Give her a compliment about her skin being soft or something, or i like your nails. As you caress her hand, and then let go!

Now i know this all sounds a bit lame, but trust me it works! How do i know? Well lets just say within about 10 minutes or so after this, if the mood is right, the kissing can begin. No more chit chat after that and you know where that leads too...

If it all seems too simple, well why dont you just try it. What do you have to loose.

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